Intimacy is a vital part of building close relationships with a romantic partner, however, getting better acquainted on a deep level doesn’t always have to involve physical intercourse, candlelight dinner or a romantic cruise for two. Playing games is an excellent way to use a competitive spirit to ignite sexual energy. If a little fun is something that’s needed to bring excitement back into a relationship, these four games are wonderful options to use to get that spark back.
1. Adult Scavenger Hunt
Put little notes of sexy commands for your partner to do around the house in various places. Give your partner hints of where the notes are hiding in a text message thread and give him/her an allotted time to find the hints. If the notes aren’t found by a certain time there will be a penalty that your partner will have to pay at the end of the game. For instance, one note may be hiding in the kitchen cabinet near the spices and it may give a command to kiss your partner on the neck. The rules of the game are for you to decide. Just remember to make the clues erotic and sexy to encourage intimacy at the end of the game.
2. Halo Challenge
There is nothing more fun than playing a good old game of hide and seek, so increase the excitement of this form of scavenger hunt by adding toy NERF guns into the mix. Turn this game into a session of Halo or your own version of tag by hiding from each other in the house and seeking each other out as moving targets. The first one to get hit is at the mercy of the victor. Make plans for the loser to serve the winner dinner while naked or for the defeated to give a relaxing massage. Be creative about the prize to be won for this game.
3. Strip Poker
This is a classic game that can be turned into erotic play for lovers looking to spice up Friday night game night. Play the poker game of your choice and make the rules simple. For every loss, the defeated has to remove an article of clothing and the game must be played until one person is left completely naked. Whatever happens after birthday suits have been revealed is up to the people playing.
4. Sex Dice
These simple erotic accessories are sold in any adult shop and can be stored away in a drawer for safe keeping. Each die serves a different purpose, one providing the players with a body part and the other with an erotic command. Pull out these dice during an evening when things may be moving a little slow. Incorporate your own rules to make the game more interesting and see where it leads.
Relationships don’t have to be all politics, logic and no play. Partnerships that involve fun and lighthearted engagement have been proven to sustain longevity. Have fun, be free and maintain stability.
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