The holidays hit home for a lot of people. Although it’s a time of celebration, it gets hard when the people you usually celebrate with aren’t there anymore. It’s hard losing friends, family, and loved ones.
It’s like the holidays is an automatic reminder that those people will never be with us ever again. While physically this is the truth, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually they are still there.
Some of the best ways to get through the holiday season is to include them in it. Make them a part. You can even get creative. For instance, here’s a few ways to remember the ones you love this holiday season.
- Light a Candle in their Honor.
Take a moment to do a personal or family candlelight. Say something you want to say to your loved one and imagine them with you.
- Make a Special Holiday Ornament.
While making the Christmas Tree, find an ornament that represents your loved one. Maybe even pick something they always loved or their favorite color.
- Create a Memorial Wreath or Christmas Tree.
Dedicate your entire tree to a family member(s). Pick special colors. Be intentional. Find pieces that represent them.
- Cook Their Favorite Holiday Dish.
Think about the foods they love to eat and create a dish. Make something you know they would love. Eat it in remembrance.
- Visit a Sentimental Place.
Go somewhere you use to go together. Visit a spot they always went. Relax and vibe in that very spot. Remember.
- Support a Cause Important to Them.
If they were a giver to a special organization, you give this year. If they had a special cause, bring some awareness to it.
- Take Care of Yourself This Holiday Season.
Be good to yourself. The last thing your loved ones want is for you to fill your holidays w tears, sadness, and worry. They would want you well. They would want you dressed. They would want you smiling and laughing. They want you at your best, so even if you’re not feeling it, take care of yourself for them and keep them in your heart while you do it.
These are just a few ideas of how to keep your loved ones in your heart this holiday season. Remember to spread love and light. Be in good spirits. Reflect and remember. Make it special for those special ones.