Meet a “Pink Pill” Woman – She’s Smart, Polished, Elegant, Shrewd and Confident. She can pick up on subtle social cues, respond instead of react, and win over any room…
Sound familiar? If you watched Kamala Harris’ performance at the 2020 Vice Presidential Debate, you witnessed a Black woman who was poised, secure, in control and assertive; all while projecting polished femininity. Black and brown girls, the world over, are walking proud and dreaming their biggest dreams thanks to this Pink Pill woman.
So, what is The Pink Pill, and why does it matter? The Pink Pill is a series of revolutionary online courses created by bestselling author and blogger, Christelyn Karazin, with a curriculum specifically created for the betterment and self-empowerment of Black women (and all women of color). Karazin’s flagship course, The Pink Pill, along with The Pink Pill For Business, and The Pink Pill For College are comprised of in-depth instructional video modules, workbook materials and collaborative instruction with guest experts from various fields. The courses also provide a private online community where Black women can communicate and share their life-transforming experiences while taking the The Pink Pill courses.
“Femininity requires a certain yielding to masculine energy,” states Karazin. “In order for femininity to thrive, a woman must feel safe enough to put down her armor and embrace her softer side. In some of the circumstances a lot of us grew up in, and still must navigate today, embracing our softer side not only makes us emotionally unsafe, but targets for potential physical harm,” Karazin insists. “Through my Pink Pillcourses, I teach Black women how to recalibrate emotionally and existentially, how to pick up on subtle social-emotional cues, how to build a valuable support network, how to cultivate a signature personal style, express themselves fearlessly and with grace, and how to feel great in their own skin, even if they are the only Black woman in the room. Kamala Harris epitomizes the quintessential Pink Pill woman. She didn’t trade in her God-given femininity and grace for strength and influence. She has both.”
Christelyn’s Tips For Taking a Page From Kamala’s Playbook and Being the Ultimate Pink Pill Woman:
Don’t compete with Men. Whether at a cocktail party, on a date, or in the boardroom, show up and show out as a woman. Exude feminine energy, and smile while firmly and politely standing your ground on matters of importance to you.
Pick your battles wisely. Don’t engage in verbal combat every time you feel slighted or offended. Conserving your energy and focus for the larger, more important battles will increase your ability to respond rather than react, and ultimately increase your financial bottom line.
You can get your point across using feminine communication skills, or the “softer skills,” as Karazin calls them. “You don’t have to go HAM (Hot Ass Mess) to be heard.” Take a second to pause, breathe, soften your stance and voice tone, and draw people into you with a softer approach and eye contact.
You can be your authentic self and still effectively navigate social, romantic and professional ecosystems outside of the Black community. “You can hear the ‘Black’ in Kamala’s voice,” says Karazin. “She does not homogenize herself. You don’t have to either.” You can be authentically Black and move with class and femininity despite the media’s distorted portrayal of “ratchetness” a la Basketball Wives and Real Housewives.
Modest doesn’t mean frumpy, and sexy doesn’t mean trashy. Wear understated yet body conscious clothing that skims and enhances your frame, and features either an elegant basic black or complimentary color that brightens your skin tone.
Wear the hair you love with pride! Whether you feel your best with braids, a short cropped cut, natural curls, straight hair or extensions, own it and choose your hairstyle based on what makes you feel good, as long as it is polished and appropriate for work. “Do not choose a hairstyle to make white folks feel more comfortable around you,” states Karazin. Whether at work or on the social scene, people will respond positively to you if you exude relaxed poise and confidence, so do you.
Accessorize with one or two pieces of jewelry. Earrings brighten the face and exude feminine energy, as does a well-placed necklace or bracelet. Less is more.
Don’t self-segregate. “Many of us were taught to be fearful or suspicious of white people growing up, particularly in the workplace,” explains Karazin. “Our well-meaning mother’s often told us to go to work, do your work, keep your head down and come home. What they failed to realize is that networking and forming key social alliances at work are an important component to professional advancement. Everyone needs a good mentor and personal advocate; someone who can push you to the front of the line. Attend that after-work event, accept that lunch invitation, and ask people for advice.”
About The Pink Pill
Since the launch of the original Pink Pill online course in 2018, The Pink Pill franchise of online courses has become the fastest growing self-improvement course for Black women in the online space, earning more than $1 Million in total revenue, to date. Concludes Christelyn Karazin (pictured right), “I help Black women live life well to the extreme; professionally, socially and romantically.” The Pink Pill course curriculum was designed to address the unique cultural experience and specific needs of Black women, helping them to thrive in all areas of their lives and succeed in diverse ecosystems. Click to learn more about The Pink Pill, The Pink Pill For College and The Pink Pill For Business. Learn more about its creator, Christelyn Karazin on Instagram and YouTube.
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